Well the lights themselves I just grounded anywhere I could find a good ground. I grounded the switch just under the radio, and the relay on the firewall.
i went and got mine tonight and tractor supply had a complete relay kit with fuses and a switch and all the wires for less than a could buy the parts to do it the other way. so i had to go relay route
I guess i need to clean up the ground for my switch to light up, only issue so far, and I ran the green wire to the parking lights.