So...looks like the fuses are good......the white wire goes to the reverse......how do I tell if a relay is bad/tripped?!?
first determine witch relay is for the headlamps (check your manual as I cant remember off hand). then pull that relay, and put in another relay that you pulled from the fuse box already (make sure the spare you are pulling isnt a vital relay). Next. check if the blue light has came off, since you did say that it was always on, correct? if that was the case and it is now off, then you my friend have a bad relay.